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Our physical beings are designed to learn from our experiences
in order to survive. If we see a lion kill a deer, we know the lion
is dangerous to us as well, by simple reasoning. (Note: all of this
applies all the more if we ourselves are actually attacked). We
train our brain: lion, danger, alert. So, the next time we see a
lion, we proceed with caution. We will most likely be fearful, certainly
very alert. We might even run back to the cave, grab our club; or,
in more recent times, run back to the cabin to get our shotgun.*
If we have an acute sense of smell, we might even smell the lion
before we or anyone else around us sees it. Also, since our conscious
mind can only deal with so much information at once, we might smell
the lion and be alerted without consciously knowing why. In addition,
notice that if we don't know any better, and we are just beginning
to figure the world out, we might take other cues from our environment.
So, now suppose at the time that we saw the lion, there were some
other things going on. Let's say there was a rabbit running by,
just before that happened. So, we might see a rabbit, and then think,
oh no, rabbit -- lion, danger, alert. Now, suppose the world is
full of rabbits, and every time you see a rabbit, you think lion.
Suppose then, that while your brain was developing and you wanted
to explore the mysteries and wonders of the world, take delight,
be happy with existence, love all that is...your world was surrounded
by lions killing deer and rabbits, and so you have to forget about
the mysteries and wonders of the world, taking delight, being happy
with existence, and loving all that is; because you wanted to survive,
so instead you spent your time, being ready for lions.
This story will serve as an example for us to talk about language
we can use in communicating about healing, or simply, 'language
about healing'.
* Note: a fully enlightened master may not
feel any fear, but in the meantime, let's look at this example,
as a way to illustrate the process of trauma and healing. Also,
I invite you to consider the implication, that witnessing violence,
can itself be traumatic. Finally, imagine if this sort of thing
happened repeatedly to a being that is helpless, and developing.
In other words. Its brain is actually still developing, and it has
no power whatsoever to protect itself. It cannot run to the cave
or the cabin and get a weapon.
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